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Thursday, July 30, 2009

Don't Get Caught Up in the How

A lot of times, when we're believing God for a mate, we get caught up in the "How" of it all. You know what I mean, it's been a while and you're like, "Lord, I know you're going to bless me with a mate, but HOW will you do it?" You can't quite figure it out so you find yourself sitting in the same area where a certain single brother at church normally sits, or you may even move to another city or change careers because you figure, "There must not be any good men where I am anyway - maybe my mate is in this new city."

Just like the man at the pool of Bethesda, some of us worry ourselves and grow deeply discouraged while trying to figure out how God is going to send us our mates. Instead of focusing on the "how," focus on trusting God while knowing that He will bring all the desires of your heart to pass in due season for your life. Hold fast to your profession of faith, allow God to order your steps, remain faithful to Him, and let God hook you up!

Scripture References:

Delight thyself also in the Lord: and He shall give thee the desires of thine heart. Psalm 37:4

Let us hold fast to the profession of our faith without wavering; (for he is faithful that promised;) Hebrews 10:23

The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord: and he delighteth in his way. Psalm 37:23

Much love in Christ, Kim Brooks
Black Expressions' Bestselling author of, He's Fine...But is He Saved? its sequel, He's Saved...But is He For Real?and non-fiction mini-book,The Little Black Survival Book for Single Saints


Kafo said...

this is very good
i like the fact that it is brief and to the point

i have a headache
i need to stop reading and sleep

thanks tho

i also read the one below about 5 signs he is flirting and that made mii laugh
okay i can't even string my words together

Lady A said...

@Kafo, thank u. I command you headache to go in Jesus name! May you be in perfect health, amen.
Glad it made you laugh. Get your rest dear!

Anonymous said...

thanks for this post!!!!
i will stop focusing on the how so help me lord!

Naijagirl said...

Thanks for this post. I love love love it. We ask God for something but we still want to give him the directions and orders in how to accomplish that.

I love the song currently playing. I wonder who the artiste is.

Lady A said...

@Pink, no problem, glad it was of help.
@Naijagirl, hey you!!! I tried leaving a comment on your blog several times, but it won't publish. I'll try again later. Have been reading. The artist is J. Moss. Glad you like!

Anonymous said...

Lady A,
I need your help please.

Could you please post your email addy. Thanks in advance

Lady A said...

@Anonymous, no problem, just comment me again with your email address. Don't worry it won't be posted.

Anonymous said...

I love your blog, once again. But Im going to let God hook me up. Lol, my admirer is coming soon.

Lady A said...

@Nigerian Fetish, it's best for God to do the matchmaking. He knows what and who we need in our life. It's so much better for Him to do it! Cherish your true love when he comes for he will be heaven sent!