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Monday, May 18, 2009

Christian Men Who Make Stupid Dating Mistakes

Written by a guy.

Many Christian men, myself included, have made dating mistakes. But yo, Christian Men! Can we talk? A lot of you Christian Men out there keep making the same stupid dating mistakes. In fact, I’m really tired of single Christian men whining about not being able to meet any nice girls, when it’s their own goofs that are driving away the promising possibilities.
Our simple piece of dating advice is that many Christian men can avoid making dating mistakes in the future by simply learning what they are, and taking appropriate steps to sincerely change.
Christian Men Dating Mistakes to Avoid

Christian Men Mistake: Being Out Of Touch With Her Needs
Every woman has heart needs. Not understanding or caring about what Christan Girls Want in a Guy means you’re probably in the group of whiners we already spoke about. All I’ll say is: If you don’t know your playbook, how can you play?

Christian Men Mistake: Failing to Communicate Your True Feelings
Many guys, including Christian men, have a difficult time expressing their feeling. This happens for a variety of reasons. Some Christian men suffer from low self-esteem so their fears of rejection hold them from sharing their heart with a woman. Other Christian men never learned how to converse with the opposite sex.

Christian Men Mistake: Acting Too Meek and Needy
Can anybody say milquetoast? A whole lot of Christian men make this boo boo by over exaggerating their sense of Christian meekness in order to win a girl’s heart. Yeah, girls love sensitive guys, but not weasels who pander to their every whim as an over pleasing “yes man.”
By the way, the Biblical meaning of meekness actually means “controlled power”, the exact quality women find irresistible. For better or worse, most women are attracted to men who are perceived as being powerful. Ever wondered why a lot of good girls date bad guys? It’s connected to this phenomenon. Christian men, do you think you can strike a balance here somewhere?

Christian Men Mistake: Yacking About The Ex
My brother did this last week while we were having dinner with his new girlfriend. I tried to kick his leg under the table, but I missed. Bottom line: Nothing soaks the kindling flames of a budding romance more. Too much talk about the ex, and she may think you’re taking her as a rebound relationship.

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Kémi Penélopê said...

Great job, Lady A dearest!!!
I have to write that your blog is becoming very interesting by the day...I meant to leave a comment on the last post but it skip my mind, But better late than never...Thanks for sharing...

Anonymous said...

Im so glad that I follow your blog...I am getting lots of food for my soul.

Lady A said...

@Kemi, thanks dear! I'm trying. I know times are hard for finding that mate, so I'm trying my best to help. I love to share good information to help others in their walk.
@Oyin, my girl! I hope your soul gets nice and full too.

simeone said...

true o..

Remi, United Kingdom said...

@simeone... lol... nah so?

Well tell them oh, to stop making mistakes oh, plenty of ready single believing women waiting oh.. God is our muscle.. lol

Well done Lady A. Keep it up, keep sharing :-)

Much love

Anonymous said...

There are some truths to some of these.

Most atimes, people look down on acclaimed christian men but I wish for the christian men that are all that and bag of chips and bold enough to also affirm that they are christians.

Some hide under the umbrella of christianity; either that or that some dont equate relationships with the bible...ahhh, i am beginning to confuse myself but it all makes sense in my head. good post

Lady A said...

@Simone, yeah! tell them pls! Lol..
@Remi, I agree, God is our muscle!
@Naijagirl, I so feel you. I guess they need other credable men to help them shine in their walk with God.

Anonymous said...

I hope so too...cos Im soooo in need of it. (^_^)