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Wednesday, March 24, 2010

First Date Etiquette On How To End A First Date

Christian or not, first date etiquette can be tricky when it comes to

knowing how to end a first date. It’s hard to be dogmatic about first date etiquette for the simple reason that each first date is different

from all others. However the following first date etiquette guidelines on how to end a first date may help. For first

date etiquette rules for first dates in general.

Need a brush up on First date do’s and don’t’s? Going on your first date with someone you met though one

of the online dating services like eHarmonycan be fun and exciting, but also a little scary. Let’s face it, the primary purpose of a first date is to assess whether there is enough chemistry to spend even more

time together. There are a number of first date “do’s and don’t’s” questions to consider:

  • What will we do on our first date?
  • What should I wear?
  • What should be the topic of conversation?
  • How do I end the first date?

While each first

date is as different as the number of singles in the world, there are a number of “first date do’s and dont’s that can help you have a

great time:

First Date Dating Do's and Don'ts

  1. This first dating step should occur before you step out your door. Make sure you are familiar with online safety dating tips, and plan accordingly.

  2. Choose activities where you will be able to speak with your date. I know movies and concerts are popular dates, but what good is it if you spend three hours together, but are not able to verbally communicate? Remember, great conversation causes sparks to fly, and is also a way to ascertain where your date’s heart is.

  3. Be totally centered on your date, even if there are numerous people nearby. This means giving your utmost attention to them by listening intently to their words and body language. This will not only help you interpret how the first date is going and when to call it a night, but will also make the other person feel more confident and relaxed.

  4. Your dress should be casual and attractive, but not sexually provocative. I’m sure you know what I mean (:

  5. Use humor and light-heartedness to relax yourself and your date.

  6. As Christian singles, it is totally appropriate and attractive to end the evening holding hands in prayer to the Lord, asking Him to guide you in this dating relationship.

First Date Dating No-Nos

  1. Never spend your first date speaking about your previous relationships and dating partners. Nothing is a bigger turnoff or more boring. Yuck! ):

  2. Don’t monopolize the conversation by centering too much on your own stories and needs.

  3. Don’t share your deepest, darkest secrets (and everyone has some) on your first date. We are not saying to not be honest and open, just allow some time to get to know each other in person.



simeone said...

hmmm.. thanks lady A

Lady A said...

@Simone, no problem. Hope all is well!

Nike' said...

very late in responding to this post but this information is so useful, I'm glad I came across it. Thanks for sharing and do please try to update more.

Lady A said...

@Nike', no problem and I'm glad it was informative to you. YES, I will try and update more...just going through a lil something, so it's not as easy as before.
Thanks for the encouragement and there is a reason for everything....sorry it took so long to reply...

Anonymous said...

> the primary purpose of a first date is to assess whether there is enough chemistry to spend even more time together.

That's for people who are into these kinds of drugs (chemistry that is). What is the purpose of the first date for ones not looking for a fix ?

Christian said...

How to end on a first date?
Its goes like this.lol
He took my hand and held it saying, "thank you for meeting me, it was fun...I will be talking to you again" I also noticed he was looking me in the eyes when he said it did that mean that he was looking to get a kiss or something from me..kinikilig ako..wooooohhchristian dating

Christian said...

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