1. It becomes a one-sided relationship with one person giving and never receiving anything in
return.
return.
2. Too controlling—Your movements become too controlled by your mate.
3. Physical or mental abuse is involved.
4. One party keeps too much secrecy in the relationship.
5. You constantly have to deal with the drama associated with his or her cheating.
6. He or she pressures you to do things that go against your standards of morality.
7. He or she shows overt disrespect by outwardly flirting and seductively dressing.
8. You’re constantly arguing over who should pay whenever you go out on a date.
9. He or she claims to be saved, but does not like for you to go to church.
10. The individual you’re dating never keeps the same job or place of residence for any length of
time.
time.
11. Drastic spiritual differences.
12. Different goals in life that will hinder each other’s ability to be grow.
13. Unable to build or maintain a strong friendship—personality conflicts.
14. Lack of respect for your partner, or your partner lacks respect for you.
15. Large amounts of fighting without any resolution to the problems—bad communication.
16. You do not like your partner’s family.
17. Unhealthy relationship between your partner and his family. (He’s a mama’s boy; or he
disrespects his mother)
disrespects his mother)
18. She divulges too much to the family concerning the relationship.
19. If your partner is not marriage-oriented; the woman is not wife-material; or the man is not
capable of being a provider and a covering for his family.
capable of being a provider and a covering for his family.
20.Your partner is selfish and/or self-centered—he always places his needs, desires, and goals
before yours.
before yours.
***Do a Google search on his/her name and see what pops up!!!***
5 THINGS HE MUST HAVE BEFORE DATING…
1. A job
2. The ability to communicate and be intellectually stimulating
3. Stable residence
4. The ability to take care of himself
5. A strong spiritual foundation
5 THINGS SHE MUST HAVE BEFORE DATING…
1. A strong spiritual foundation
2. Intelligence
3. Compassion
4. Independence
5. Goals/Ambition
Relationship Thursday With Bishop Bloomer IMPACT Conference 2006
©2006 George G. Bloomer
http://www.bethelfamily.org/
©2006 George G. Bloomer
http://www.bethelfamily.org/
