tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3234460353981086730.post838565974655127150..comments2023-06-21T05:12:03.825-07:00Comments on Single Or Married This Is For You: Is It Wrong To Stay In The Same House Before Marriage?Lady Ahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04034077237964160933noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3234460353981086730.post-19989305044785483232011-01-13T10:44:36.418-08:002011-01-13T10:44:36.418-08:00@Anonymous, AMEN!!! Well said!
Sorry it took so l...@Anonymous, AMEN!!! Well said!<br />Sorry it took so long to respond....Lady Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04034077237964160933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3234460353981086730.post-21371859861519685812011-01-06T08:33:28.000-08:002011-01-06T08:33:28.000-08:00Lady A, this is true. I agree with it. God does ...Lady A, this is true. I agree with it. God does feel for us because God is always with and in us. In the Spirit it makes a whole lot of sense, yet our spirit is challenged by the flesh (that which we can see and desire to feel). Let's just pray that God will have God's way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3234460353981086730.post-8385772849895572742010-05-13T05:09:45.828-07:002010-05-13T05:09:45.828-07:00@Anonymous, that was an excellent comment. You sa...@Anonymous, that was an excellent comment. You said it all like the others!<br />It does my heart good to know that christians are standing for truth and righteousness.<br />One thing, when I mentioned "pure intentions," I wasn't clear. I was trying to say "is your reasoning of living together is to eventually sleep with your partner or to help them out until, etc..stuff like that....something for the readers to think about.<br />Thank you for sharing your heart, you pretty much preached it!Lady Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04034077237964160933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3234460353981086730.post-85290343630261448882010-05-13T02:13:53.866-07:002010-05-13T02:13:53.866-07:00Wow, this is amazing because though I'm findin...Wow, this is amazing because though I'm finding this post quite late, I just read an article by someone who talked about having the "wedding/pre-marriage blues."<br />I agree with recent commentors that if we profess to be christians, then we are called to flee, not indulge in, but flee, run from ALL appearances of evil. Do not give the enenmy a footstool. A couple may have good intentions but then again doesn't everyone....I stole because I wanted to give my mum a new coat for her birthday, shes been wearing the same old thin one for 10 years....thats a good intention, I sold drugs on the street because I was trying to feed my family...thats a good intention.<br /><br />I liked what the writer said in the above article because its true, this common trend of co-hibiting prior to marriage does rob a couple of the excitement that should be there in the months after the wedding. A newly-wed should be on cloud 9, she should be beaming from ear-to-ear that you can see it a mile away but just like pre-marital sex, once the gift has been opened or tampered with, whats there to be excited about? Your waking up together, side by side is not new, the excitement you should feel about coming home after a long day at work and just being in each others arms is not new, the excitement you should feel about each new discovery about your spouse is not there because you'll already discovered them whilst living together prior to marriage, so whats new? The devil is a liar, the father of lies, the great deceiver, at the time of you co-hibiting it will feel normal, right, ok, not much to it, not a big deal but just like he deceived Eve in the Garden of Eden by refusing to tell her the consequences of being Independent and "like God", he won't tell you what he himself already knows(yes, trust and believe that satan knows that the excitement is needed and crucial for the first years of marriage for a newly-wed). That is how he operates...deception is his biggest weapon. So I'm sorry but its NOT normal to feel the "blues" after your wedding and yeah everyone else may be co-hibiting and sexing and jumping off the bridge but remember if your a christian what is normal to the world CANNOT be normal for you. You are set apart, sanctifid, called to be the light of this world, you are called to be DIIFFERENT. Oh how I wish christians will wake up, you cannot have your cake and eat it. We want to be blessed but we don't do what we need to do in order to get the blessings. For every action there is a consequence, what you sow is what you will reap. I'm not saying that if a couple were co-hibiting prior to marriage that God won't forgive them if they confess and repent and turn from "evil" but why put yourself through the consequence of your actions in the first place. God will forgive but He doesn't remove the consequences, e.g you have sex (pre-marital sex), you get pregnant. God will forgive you if you ask Him to but He won't stop your belly from swelling up.<br /><br /><br /><br />Its not just about us either in this topic of co-hibiting prior to marriage. Again, as christians we are to rep Christ. Christ stands for Holiness, purity. How does your life, i.e the words that come from your mouth, your actions, the way you dress etc advocate Christ. If you say that your a christian yet people (unbelievers) see you coming and going from a mans house, they won't hear you if you tell them you sleep under the covers and he sleeps on top, or you sleep on the bed and he sleeps on the floor, or you sleep in the bedroom whilst he sleeps in the living room or that you draw lines on the sheets to "act" as a barrier, all they will hear is that this person says shes a christian and is living with a man who is not her husband....so its ok.<br /><br /><br /><br />What may seem ok at the time will show itself to be something else later on.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3234460353981086730.post-74558934863840446072010-04-14T08:05:51.449-07:002010-04-14T08:05:51.449-07:00@Favoured G, AMEN! How are you doing?@Favoured G, AMEN! How are you doing?Lady Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04034077237964160933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3234460353981086730.post-18151532680213508262010-04-13T13:11:52.419-07:002010-04-13T13:11:52.419-07:00I totally agree with the post. Every couple is dif...I totally agree with the post. Every couple is different, but we each should be accountable to what we profess. If we are Christians, and we say we are walking in purity, then we should plan our activities (and sleeping arrangements) around that.Tolulope Popoolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04824894132453805811noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3234460353981086730.post-23731647641693017982010-04-05T13:05:47.146-07:002010-04-05T13:05:47.146-07:00@Damsel, finally back and happy! Everyone beliefs...@Damsel, finally back and happy! Everyone beliefs system is different, we are accountable for self.<br />@MissFH, I didn't forget about you, how's everything?Lady Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04034077237964160933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3234460353981086730.post-54247413494787371222010-04-01T19:51:14.665-07:002010-04-01T19:51:14.665-07:00From when this first said 'foothold to the ene...From when this first said 'foothold to the enemy' I knew I would agree.<br /><br />Great write up :)<br /><br />Long time sister!Isabellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05251587150360462064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3234460353981086730.post-16187283192748122832010-04-01T12:13:33.245-07:002010-04-01T12:13:33.245-07:00ur back!!! yay :) nice post!!! i totally agree...b...ur back!!! yay :) nice post!!! i totally agree...but its sad when adults ( in this case my aunt) is telling me that IT IS O.K to live with a man ur not married toOnosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13583360257340823538noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3234460353981086730.post-52281526609305279752010-04-01T06:46:33.272-07:002010-04-01T06:46:33.272-07:00Yep yep! Everytime someone asks me Y I wouldnt my ...Yep yep! Everytime someone asks me Y I wouldnt my ans is the same.<br />The bible says FLEE from appearances of evil. No? Not just stay, FLEE!<br />LoolFabulo-lahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16328069706170342492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3234460353981086730.post-16556026903707274752010-03-31T19:12:44.356-07:002010-03-31T19:12:44.356-07:00@Anonymous, thank you! God bless you too! I hope...@Anonymous, thank you! God bless you too! I hope all understand.Lady Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04034077237964160933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3234460353981086730.post-78469036713780839892010-03-31T18:42:50.836-07:002010-03-31T18:42:50.836-07:00My thoughts exactly! I can't believe you even ...My thoughts exactly! I can't believe you even mentioned the verse that says "stay away from even the appearance of evil"... Someone told me that once....Wow. <br />Great answer, backed by SOUND, biblical points! You don't know how rare that is! God bless you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com